The Thing About True Love..

Love love love love love love love… as I sit to write what I think is my next master piece after sharing love story with chocolate.. I can probably scribble love just as many time as before and not get bored..

So here it goes again..

Love love love love love love love…

Well since that’s out of the way now, I should start writing something that makes more sense. I am as most of you must have guessed a firm believer of true love, that comes from mostly being a diehard Shahrukh Khan fan but still there is no denying that I do believe in the concept of happily ever after.

No matter how much I stop myself after a heart break …. I still fall in love (so much for learning from your mistakes), the problem actually is not the falling in love part but the heart break, each broken relationship embeds one of its sharp tiny corners in your heart. At large you won’t feel that there is anything wrong with you yet sometime time last at night you’d wake up from sleep craving for a person who is already lost to you.

My theory is that even though we do move on in life and find someone to be with but we don’t really let go that one person who was the first to send us off in air like a shooting star with one look.

Though I don’t think that there is a way to forget that person, but what I do know is that if we hold on to him really tight we lose so many other people who could have made life so much better.

What we have to figure out that is if that one person that we are not ready to give up really worth all the other things that we are letting go.

I’m sure everyone who has ever fallen in love will agree with me that love really does feels like magic. Your heart soars with great excitement and anticipation. But being “in love” may or may not overlap with really loving someone. Is there a difference between “love” and “being in love”? It’s debatable. Some claim both can exist throughout a relationship. Others say the “in love” feeling is an idealization of the partner during courtship that can evolve into love.

Because if we think rationally and not a love struck teenager (me!) True love requires courage because this kind of love challenges your self-esteem and your potential to change your life or adjust to someone else’s lifestyle.

Yet we never give up because loving and being loved adds richness to our lives. Love helps us feel important, understood, and secure but what is the most important is that the person who is giving us this feeling of security received the same from us whole heartedly.

The perfect recipe for True love is:

2 loving caring and crazy hearts

1 teaspoon of Frivolousness

4 cups of deep conversations

Few butterflies for sprinkling

1 kiss that rise 10-on-10 on the spark-O-metre

 The kind of love we feel in romantic relationships is its own unique type of love that makes us feel like we are the only two people in the whole world. I know it can’t ever be like a Cinderella story there will always be someone who has hurt our heart, our special someone may have his/ her own flaws but really? At the end of a tiresome day when I have someone to go to, I don’t think that any of those things, because I know that no matter what I do, where I go I will always have someone to belong to.

Give the universe a chance, if your heart has been broken, give someone a chance to mend it. If your too scared, give yourself a chance to do something bravely stupid, something that you can remember in age old and laugh till your stomach hurt, if you are a really careful person do something rebellious something you have never done before.. FALL IN LOVE, knock yourself down… and yes get hurt, because a person who hasn’t felt sad or damaged will never know the joy of being happy and complete..

Like most renowned poets of our time say:

“See like just because this cold, cruel world
Saying we can't be,
Baby, we both have the right to disagree,
And I ain't with it.
And I don't wanna be so old and gray,
Reminiscing about these better days,
But convention's telling us to let go”

-       Justin Bieber

“Romeo, take me somewhere we can be alone.
I'll be waiting; all that's left to do is run.
You'll be the prince and I'll be the princess,
It's a love story, baby, just say, YES”

-       Taylor Swift