There are times when you might wish that you could change someone, i have tried it,almost all my life, to mold the one person i want in my life according to my fantasies, but the only person you can have absolute control over is you.

There may be times when you wish that something did not happen, but once time has passed there is no going back, because whatever you do, you have to live with. life is like a blank canvas, you can paint it with whatever colors you like, but once the colors are on it, you cant change it. you just have to take a fresh new canvas and begin again.

Concentrate on the things that you can control, take charge of your life and make the most of every day, no matter what happens, have faith in yourself, because no matter what the world says, you'll always be what you want to, even god gives you that sort of control of your life.

Don't waste energy trying to change the unchangeable, work with it, if its something that you really really want, you'll make it work.